GET THE CLARITY YOU NEED BEFORE YOU SEE A LAWYER
This guide is for couples who believe that protecting each other means planning wisely — not leaving it to chance, or to the courts. If you’re ready for clarity, peace of mind, and a plan that reflects your values, you’re in the right place.
Couples in a second marriage or long-term relationship
Anyone with children from a previous relationship
Partners who want to protect assets they’ve worked hard for
Business owners or property owners wanting certainty
Anyone feeling unsure how to start the “prenup” conversation
Couples wanting to stay in control — not leave it to the courts
People who value clarity, care, and real solutions
You — if you want to plan your future together well
This guide is for couples who want to start smart — with mutual respect, shared values, and a little clarity around what happens
if life doesn’t go to plan.
It’s not about expecting the worst. It’s about protecting what matters most — with honesty, love, and practical tools you can both feel good about.
Hi, I’m Jaime
I’m a mum of five, an estate planning and family lawyer, and the founder of Family First Estate Planning.
I created this guide because I’ve seen too many couples fall into confusion, expense, or conflict simply because they didn’t know how or when to talk about the hard stuff.
With the right tools, agreements like these don’t have to be scary. They can be smart, supportive, and empowering and they don't have to cost you tens of thousands of dollars. In fact, the should save you that!
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MAKE SMART, RESPECTFUL DECISIONS ABOUT YOUR FUTURE - TOGETHER
Here's What’s Waiting for You in the Guide
What a Binding Financial Agreement (Prenup) really is — and how it works in Australia Cut through the legal jargon with a clear, honest explanation of what a BFA does, when it applies, and how it can protect your assets, family, and peace of mind.
Real case study: what happens with — and without — a financial agreement Learn from a relatable, true-to-life scenario showing how two different outcomes unfolded depending on whether a BFA was in place.
Asset & liability schedules & guided prompts to help you get organised today Includes printable templates for both partners to outline their current financial positions — plus future-proofing questions to help you structure your agreement thoughtfully.
Conversation starters, common myths, and practical next steps
Get support in how to raise the topic with your partner, bust common fears, and confidently move toward a fixed-fee, personalised strategy that reflects your real life.
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Do we really need a financial agreement if things are going well?
Yes - especially if things are going well. This isn't about expecting separation. It's about being intentional with how you protect what matters and avoiding conflict or confusion down the track. Making those decisions now, while you still want the best for each other is the best time to be thinking about these things.
This guide is for couples who are dating seriously, moving in together, engaged, already in a de facto relationship or even married. The earlier you plan, the more options you have — and the easier the conversation usually is.
Not at all — but it helps you get there faster, with less stress and a lot more clarity. This guide gives you the groundwork, so your lawyer time is more efficient and focused.
Absolutely. This guide is especially helpful if one or both of you has children from a previous relationship or existing assets you want to protect. It gives you language and structure for a thoughtful, future-focused plan.
It depends — many lawyers charge upwards of $10,000. At Family First, we start with a fixed-fee strategy session for $550 and provide a clear quote based on your structure following that. This guide helps reduce costs by getting you prepared before you even book.
It gives you the structure, language, and tools to begin. From conversation starters to asset and liability schedules, you’ll be guided through the real questions that matter — so you’re not starting from scratch or guessing what to ask a lawyer.
This guide gives you language to open the conversation with care, not conflict. You’ll also find examples and case studies that make it easier to understand why planning ahead protects both of you — not just one side.
No — this isn’t a legal document. It’s a practical planning tool that helps you understand, prepare, and get organised before you engage a lawyer to draft something binding and compliant.
Yes — most people don’t. That’s exactly why this guide exists. It walks you through common structures, thoughtful prompts, and real-life examples so you can start shaping what feels fair for you, without pressure of diving straight into a legal consultation.
this guide will help you cover the groundwork together, have the conversations and walk into your lawyer's office already one step ahead.